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Prologue
? For Parents Who Feel Lost Now That AI Can Answer Almost Anything How to Use This Book ? 1. You Do Not Have to Do Everything ? 2. See Your Child Before Looking for the Right Answer ? 3. The One Question to Keep in Mind While Reading This Book Part 1. Why Parents Feel Lost in the Age of AI ? The More Information We Have, the More We Need an Inner Compass Chapter 1. When Coding, English, and Literacy All Seem Important ? What Should My Child Learn First to Avoid Falling Behind? Chapter 2. If AI Can Give the Answers, Is There Still a Reason to Study? ? Why Does My Child Need to Study When AI Can Do So Much? Chapter 3. Parents Lose Their Way Before Their Children Do ? Is My Anxiety Being Passed On to My Child? Chapter 4. It Is Time to Change the Questions We Ask About Education ? Instead of Asking What to Teach, What Should We Ask? Part 2. Before Seeking Answers, Children Need an Inner Compass ? Children with an Inner Compass Do Not Easily Lose Their Way Chapter 5. Direction Comes Before Independence ? Is Self-Directed Learning Enough? Chapter 6. A Simpler Idea Than an Inner Axis: an Inner Compass ? What Should We Help Our Children Build Within Themselves? Chapter 7. Children with Standards Are Not Easily Led by AI ? What Standards Should We Teach Our Children to Use? Chapter 8. AI May Give the Answers, but Children Must Find Their Own Direction ? What Should Children Do When AI Gives Them the Answer? Part 3. Asking, Reading, and Speaking Move the Inner Compass ? Raising Children Who Ask Better Questions, Not Just Children Who Get Better Grades Chapter 9. Children Who Ask Better Questions, Not Just Children Who Get Better Grades ? Why Is Asking Good Questions So Important? Chapter 10. Good Questions Are Grown, Not Born ? Why Does My Child Not Ask Questions? Chapter 11. Why Children Must Read More Deeply When AI Can Read for Them ? Can Reading a Summary Really Count as Learning? Chapter 12. If You Cannot Explain It, It Is Not Yet Your Own Thought ? Why Can My Child Not Explain Something They Seem to Understand? Part 4. Children Need Standards Before Trusting AI’s Answers ? Children with an Inner Compass Do Not Accept AI’s Answers Without Question Chapter 13. AI Does Not Think; It Combines ? Why Can AI Give Answers That Sound Convincing but Are Wrong? Chapter 14. The Question “Is That Really True?” Protects Children ? How Can We Teach Critical Thinking? Chapter 15. Children Who Check Sources Are Not Easily Misled ? How Can Children Tell Real Information from False Information? Chapter 16. Using AI Without Standards Eventually Becomes Dependence ? Where Is the Line Between Convenience and Dependence? Part 5. Raising Children Who Guide AI, Not Children Who Are Guided by It ? AI Is a Tool, but the Inner Compass Must Remain Within the Child Chapter 17. Should Children Be Allowed to Use ChatGPT, or Should It Be Restricted? ? When Is It Appropriate for Children to Begin Using AI? Chapter 18. How Much AI Help with Homework Should Be Allowed? ? Is This Learning, or Is It Plagiarism? Chapter 19. Can an AI Tutor Replace a Private Academy? ? Is an AI Learning App Enough? Chapter 20. Children Who Consume AI and Children Who Create with AI Are Different ? Can Children Who Mainly Play Games and Watch YouTube Still Be Creative? Part 6. A Career Is Not a Job Title but a Direction ? Children with Direction Do Not Lose Their Way When Jobs Change Chapter 21. Look Beyond Disappearing Jobs to the Abilities That Endure ? Will AI Replace Doctors, Lawyers, and Developers? Chapter 22. Should Children Learn Coding or Computational Thinking? ? Will My Child Fall Behind Without Coding Classes? Chapter 23. English Is Not Just a Score but a Tool for Expanding the World ? Should Children Keep Learning English When AI Can Translate? Chapter 24. A Child’s View of the World Begins with What They Love ? Is It All Right for My Child to Be Absorbed in Things That Seem Useless? Part 7. In the End, What Protects Children Is Their Humanity ? As Technology Accelerates, the Direction of the Heart Matters More Chapter 25. AI Can Imitate Empathy, but It Cannot Replace It ? Is Being Smart Enough? Chapter 26. Resilience Is the Ability to Find Direction Again After Getting Lost ? How Can We Help a Child Who Gives Up When Things Become Difficult? Chapter 27. The More Online Relationships Grow, the More Offline Trust Matters ? Is It All Right for Children to Meet Friends Only Through Social Media or Games? Chapter 28. Using AI Without Ethics Puts Children at Risk ? How Should We Teach Digital Manners and AI Ethics? Part 8. Parents Are Not Controllers but People Who Place a Compass in a Child’s Hand ? A Parent’s Direction Shapes a Child’s Direction Chapter 29. Ask What to Remove, Not Only What More to Add ? What Should We Do When We Cannot Let Go of Anything? Chapter 30. Every Child Needs a Different Kind of Compass ? What Should We Do When Popular Methods Do Not Suit Our Child? Chapter 31. Creating Our Family’s Own Rules for Using AI ? What Should We Do When We Fight Every Day About Smartphones and AI? Chapter 32. The Greatest Gift Parents Can Give ? In the End, What Can Parents Truly Give Their Children? Epilogue ? AI May Give the Answers, but Children Must Find Their Own Direction in Life |