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Introduction: How They See You, How They Don't 1
Part I Why It's So Hard to Understand Each Other 1. You Are Surprisingly Hard to Understand 9 2. Your Observers Are Cognitive Misers (and So Are You) 21 3. The Two Phases of Perceiving People 41 Part II The Lenses That Shape Perception 4. The Trust Lens 65 5. The Power Lens 85 6. The Ego Lens 103 Part III Lenses for Particular Personalities 7. Eager Reward-Seekers and Vigilant Risk-Mitigators 129 8. The Clingy, Anxious Perceiver and the Aloof, Avoidant Perceiver 147 Part IV Being Seen, and Seeing Others, More Accurately 9. Correcting Bad Impressions and Overcoming Misunderstandings 165 Conclusion: Becoming a Better Judge of Others-and of Yourself 187 Notes 193 Index 201 Acknowledgments 211 About the Author 213 |