The Object of the Game

Four Ground Rules
You are who you say you are
One Prize doesn't fit all
Work isn't a Sorority
You're always a Mother, Daughter, Wife or Mistress

Preparing to Play
Learn the Playing Field
Check Out the Team Culture
Get Picked for the Team
Wear the Right Uniform
Set the Right Goal

How to Keep Score

Playing the Game: Fourteen Basic Rules for Success
Make a Request
Speak Out
Speak Up
Toot Your Own Horn
Don't Expect to Make Friends
Accept Uncertainty
Take a Risk
Be an Imposter
Don't Anguish
Follow the Team Leader
Don't Assume Responsibility Without Authority
Sit at the Table
Laugh

Six Things Men Can Do at Work That Women Can't
They Can Cry. You Can't
They Can Have Sex. You Can't
They Can Fidget. You Can't
They Can Yell. You Can't
They Can Have Bad Manners. You Can't
They Can Be Ugly. You Can't

He Hears, She Hears: Ten Genderbender Vocabulary Words
Yes (Exactly What It Means)
No (Not What It Means)
Hope (The Worst Word in the Game)
Guilt (It Means Trouble)
Sorry (It's a Sorry Word)
Aggressive (It's Not Assertive)
Fight (It's Not a Pretty Word)
Game (a.k.a.: Fun)
Glass Ceiling (Their Term, Not Ours)
Future (Then and Now)

How to Enter and Exit the Game

The Two Final Rules
Be a Woman
Be Yourself