정신분석학과 사랑.The Book of Psychoanalysis and Love, by Andre Tridon
CONTENTS
Transcriber's Notes
INTRODUCTION
INDEX
Footnotes
CHAPTER

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I THE HEAD AND THE HEART
Love is independent from the
will. Victims of Venus. Love and
affection. Erotropism. What is the
heart? A dead heart can be made to
beat. The heart is a respectable organ.
The antithesis head- heart. Nerve
memory.
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II THE CHOICE OF A MATE
What we see in our mate. The
meaning of choice. The donkey's
dilemma. Chance in the discard. The
dog's choice. The behavior of
copepods.
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III THE QUEST OF THE FETISH
The hair fetishist. Everybody
a fetishist. Most common fetishes. The
breast and the bottle. Feminine
fetishes. Physiological necessities.
Foot and shoe fetishism. Non- physical
fetishes. Symbolical fetishes.
Antifetishes. Attraction or obsession?
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IV THE FAMILY ROMANCE AND THE FAMILY
FEUD
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The Oedipus complex. The
Freudian view. Jung's interpretation.
Adler. Pseudo- incest. The Neurotic life
plan. Imitation. The glands.
Identification mania. Early conflicts.
Death wishes. Our preferences. Craig's
birds.
V INCEST
The incest fear. Incest in
ancient times. Inbreeding. The primal
horde. Repressed incestuous feelings.
Blood relations.
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VI THE PHYSIOLOGY OF LOVE
The organism a unit. Love's
stimulation. The successful lover. The
unsuccessful lover. Calf love.
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VII THE SENSES IN LOVE
Sight. Auditory sensations.
Smell. The sense of taste. Touch.
Holding hands. The kiss. The birth of
the kiss. Kisses and electricity.
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VIII EGO AND SEX
Neurotic complications.
Self- love. Ego in sex guise.
Fatherhood. War prisoners. Neurotic
motherliness. When ego and sex do not
conflict.
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IX HATRED AND LOVE
A worried wife. The test of
love. Sour grapes. Brothers and sisters.
A negro hater. Reformers. The
syphilophobiac. Deluded martyrs.
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X PLURAL LOVE AND INFIDELITY 83
Polyandry. Infidelity. When
love dies. Iwan Bloch's and Hirth's
theories. Bored wives. Getting even.
Varietists and Don Juans. The ultra feminine. Messalina.
XI IS FREE LOVE POSSIBLE?
Man, the dissatisfied. The
next step. Blissful blindness. What of
the child? Disharmony between the
parents. The institution child. Free love
plus birth control.
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XII PROSTITUTION
Economic factors.
Lombrosos's theory. Sensuality. Father
fixation. Prostitution a neurosis. The
pimp. Prevention. Prostitution has no
redeeming grace.
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XIII VIRGINITY
What men experienced in
love want? Ethical prostitution. The fear
of woman. The will- to- be- the- first.
Telegony. Goldschmidt's explanations.
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XIV MODESTY, NORMAL AND ABNORMAL
In Turkey. On the modern
stage. Normal modesty. Suggestive
draperies. Excessive modesty.
Immodest modesty. Fear of love. The
masculine protest. Lack of modesty.
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XV JEALOUSY
Forel's rules for husbands.
Very few men and women admit their
jealousy. Jealousy and impotence.
Childish behavior. The ego rampant.
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Sexless jealousy. Husbands and lovers.
Cruelty. Making people jealous.
XVI INSANE JEALOUSY
Delusional jealousy.
Homosexualism and jealousy. A jealous
wife. A case of projection. Masked
sadism.
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XVII HOMOSEXUALISM. ITS GENESIS
Male lovers in Greece.
Women were harem slaves. The tide
turns. Theories. The third sex.
Transvestites. Are transvestites
homosexual? Metatropism. Steinach's
experiments. Perverse birds. Freud
denies the third sex. Active and passive
types. The homosexual neurosis. A
safety device. Above and below. A way
out. The escape from biological duties.
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XVIII HOMOSEXUALISM A NEUROTIC SYMPTOM
A denial of life.
Homosexualism is negative love. The
love letters of famous homosexuals.
Deeds of violence. A homosexual
tragedy. Women more homosexual than
men. Boastful homosexuals. The
Nietzsche- Wagner feud. Shall perverse
love be recognized? Man's
emancipation from woman.
Homosexualism and war. Is
homosexualism necessary?
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XIX CRUELTY AND LOVE―SADISM
Algolagnists. The Marquis de
Sade's biography. What Bonaparte
thought of him. Glandular drunkenness.
Atavism. Primitive religions. Primitive
races and sex violence. Animal love
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fights. The sadistic mob. Is the male
more cruel?
XX LOVE THAT CRAVES SUFFERING―
MASOCHISM
Sacher Masoch's biography.
Love of the whip. The masochist is like
a tired horse. Shoe fetishism. Craving
for humiliation. Masochistic fancies. Are
women masochistic? Women who enjoy
a beating. A Freudian suggestion.
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XXI WHAT LOVE OWES TO SADISTS AND
MASOCHISTS
Sadistic and masochistic
lovers and their fascination. The vamp.
Those who are too normal to be
interesting or romantic.
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XXII LOVE AMONG THE ARTISTS
Dissatisfaction. The male
artist. The female artist. The woman
who accomplishes things. Flattery.
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XXIII THE PERSONALITY BEHIND THE
FETISHES. GLANDS
The parent- child
relationship. Modern endocrinologists
ignorant of psychology. Reciprocal
influence of glands and behavior. The
pituitary gland. The thyroid. The
adrenals. The gonads.
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XXIV GLANDULAR PERSONALITIES
The dark skinned type. The
tall type. The lean type. The obese type.
The slender type. Environment. Comfort
and behavior. What teeth indicate.
Matrimonial engineers.
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XXV LOVE AND MOTHER LOVE
Sex cravings and
motherhood cravings. Pregnancy
means health. Fear of pregnancy. When
mother love is lacking. Frigid wives.
Mother and father love. Mothers adore
their sons. Fathers partial to daughters.
The flapper and her mother.
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XXVI SHOULD WINTER MATE WITH SPRING?
Two disinterested brides.
The case of Wagner. A parent fixation.
Physical incompatibility. The plight of
two neurotics. What will people say?
Having her fixation- fling. Physical
results. The fate of the younger mate.
King David.
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XXVII NEGATIVE LOVE
A "clean" life. Utterances and
conduct. Oracles and prophecies. Can
we save our vital force. Sublimation.
The sexless. Ideal love. Protective
measures. Lovers of the absolute. A
troublesome patient. Higher aspirations.
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XXVIII THE NEW WOMAN AND LOVE
George Bernard Shaw's
view. The rebellion against nature.
Woman in commercial life. Was it a
sacrifice? The pursuit. The passing of
respectable prostitution. The abettor of
ethical sins. Health versus sickness.
The passing of the flirt and of the doll.
Modesty, old and new. The unadapted
woman. The proud husband.
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XXIX BIRTH CONTROL 291
What we expect of the
modern woman. The only solution. The
human milch cow. The nightmare of
abortion. The plight of the neurotic
woman. The child of the neurotic
woman. Birth control and indulgence. A
great love is a holy thing. The passing
of the double standard.
XXX THE PASSING OF THE HUSBAND
WORSHIP
Is man's vitality declining?
Undue pessimism. The wise husband. Is
the male indispensable? Loeb's
experiments. Twins to order. The
mother is the race. Matriarchal
communities. Modern woman is
conceited. The terrors of the
climacteric. Masculine man is in no
danger of passing away.
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XXXI PERFECT MATRIMONIAL ADJUSTMENTS
Marriage a compromise.
Attractiveness an asset. Forty and
hideous. Athletic movie idols. The foe of
married happiness. Friendship may
survive love. Separate vacations for the
married. The play function of love.
Psychoanalysis to the rescue. Wounded
egotism. Democracy in the home.
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